As we overthink the yesterdays, we have to step back and recognize that how we existed in those places was by utilizing the abilities that we had at the time and in those encounters, our responses were the ones that we had to give.
Our belief, though, is that our actions were not enough based on what we think today and that conflict distances us from having understanding for the unmet expectations that we grieve as well as the marks left by those painful events.
It is reasonable, then, to want to rewrite the old but the consequences of our being overly focused on that desire are the feelings of invalidation and unhappiness that continue to impact our ability to trust ourselves each and every day.
In other words, those former missteps encourage us to disappear into the fear that our future moves will carry on and the conversations that we have with ourselves dwell in that worn out energy instead of showing up to shift our view.
If we revisit how we defined change previously, that term has simply expressed our need to not repeat unwanted behaviors and suffering.
However, the truth of what it really entails is that its made up of many, many unseen details and even challenges that can eventually cultivate the flowers that we imagine but not always in the frame that we hope for.
So just our being aware that we want our worn pages to be different is one of the little ways that we are, indeed, slowly stepping into the light of the particulars that are still not clear for us.
Sometimes we are the dragons whose boundaries don’t support us but instead hold us back by not allowing room for the expansion and redefining of the information that we have believed about ourselves.
The most powerful and vulnerable we will ever be is in our existence of our own words that can be both what exhausts us and inspires our curiosity but which one we grasp will depend upon what we are able to make use of minute by minute.
Every day we are enough but not every day is it possible for us to feel that especially since the yesterdays whisper that we remain the same in the now and then of our stories and the tomorrows have yet to appear to provide us with the knowledge that will help us to cope with who we are today.
Have the best day POSSIBLE for you. Love Always, Heavell
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